TRAIN
YOUR CHILDREN WELL
BREAD
4 Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. 5 Love
the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your
strength. 6 These commandments that I give you today are to be
upon your hearts. 7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when
you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when
you get up. 8 Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on
your foreheads. 9 Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on
your gates. Deuteronomy 6:4-9 (NIV)
9 Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that
you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your
heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children
after them. Deuteronomy 4:9 (NIV)
18 Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie
them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 19 Teach
them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you
walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 20 Write
them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, 21 so
that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land that the
LORD swore to give your forefathers, as many as the days that the heavens are
above the earth. Deuteronomy 11:18-21
(NIV)
46 He said to them, “Take to heart all the words I have
solemnly declared to you this day, so that you may command your children to
obey carefully all the words of this law. 47 They
are not just idle words for you--they are your life.” Deuteronomy 32:46-47 (NIV)
7 In everything set them an example by doing what is
good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness 8 and
soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may
be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us. Titus 2:7-8 (NIV)
10 For Ezra had devoted himself to the study and
observance of the Law of the LORD, and to teaching its decrees and laws in
Israel. Ezra 7:10 (NIV)
6 Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is
old he will not turn from it. Proverbs 22:6 (NIV)
11 We have much to say about this, but it is hard to
explain because you are slow to learn. 12 In
fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach
you the elementary truths of God's word all over again. You need milk, not
solid food! 13 Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is
not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. 14 But
solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to
distinguish good from evil. Hebrews
5:11-14 (NIV)
14 Keep reminding them of these things. Warn them before
God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who
listen. 15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one
approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles
the word of truth. 16 Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it
will become more and more ungodly. 17 Their teaching will spread like gangrene. 2 Timothy
2:14-17 (NIV)
40 A student is not above his teacher, but everyone who
is fully trained will be like his teacher. Luke 6:40 (NIV)
11 Teach me your way, O LORD; lead me in a straight path because
of my oppressors. 12 Do
not turn me over to the desire of my foes, for false witnesses rise up against
me, breathing out violence. 13 I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness
of the LORD in the land of the living. 14 Wait
for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD. Psalms
27:11-14 (NIV)
14 Jesus said, “Let the little
children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs
to such as these.” 15 When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from
there. Matthew 19:14-15 (NIV)
BUTTER
“Oh that God would give every mother a vision of the glory and splendor of the work that is given to her when a babe is place in her bosom to be nursed and trained! Could she have but one glimpse in to the future of that life as it reaches on into eternity; could she look into its soul to see its possibilities; could she be made to understand her own personal responsibility for the training of this child, for the development of its life, and for its destiny,--she would see that in all God's world there is no other work so noble and so worthy of her best powers, and she would commit to no others hands the sacred and holy trust given to her.” JR Miller
“Never tire of doing what is right. Live a life acutely aware of the brevity of it. We are indeed but a mist. And we will have all eternity to be in bliss. Seek not to pander the flesh but to promote self-discipline, placing a priority of love on those in your spheres – especially those in your own household. We often miss so many God given opportunities when indulging our worldly wants. Denial of the flesh – choosing God’s will over my own - is never easy, often misunderstood but always worth it. His way is higher, better, more beneficial and pleasing to the soul though often unutterably difficult. In the end, it produces a life of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.” BHY
“Don’t
worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching
you.” Robert Fulghum
“Former Navy SEAL Michael Janke defines
self-control as ‘the ability of the individual to adhere to actions, thoughts,
and behaviors that result in personal improvement instead of instant
gratification.’ He suggests that our ability
to be self-managed casts a long shadow on our children and grandchildren. When we begin to use self-discipline to
control our emotional highs and lows, our appearance, our work ethic, and our
commitment to physical exercise, we are providing an example and leaving a
legacy for those who follow us….When we detect an area in our lives needing
mastery, the Lord’s grace is sufficient to bring it under self-control as we
walk in the Spirit and commit ourselves to obedience. Peter tells us to make every effort to add to
our faith goodness, knowledge, and self-control (2 Peter 1:5-6).” Robert
J. Morgan
“He alone has exhibited a life in which
absolutely no fault could be found; and promulgated a teaching to which
absolutely no exception can be taken.
Admittedly He is the One perfect Man – the ideal of humanity, His
doctrine the one absolute teaching. The
world has known none other, none equal.”
Alfred Edersheim
“This is a passing world — a world that is passing away, and a world passing on its legacy, and the children are looking up and straight into us, asking the world what in this banged-up world are you all passing down to us?” Ann Voskamp
HEART SAVOR
· It is our duty, our responsibility, indeed, our great
privilege to teach our children well and it begins with our walking in a manner
worthy of the Lord. Most people learn
from us when our ways and our mouths are not in conflict. Our actions are louder than our blustering
words.
· We
are to pour into our children what God has poured into us. You cannot teach what you do not have.
· If
you desire to be a worthy teacher, you must learn from spending time with the Master.



